In family court, there are many moving parts. This includes worrying about the witnesses who will be called, the evidence that will be presented, and how the judge will rule. It may involve the emotions and stress of being in court. For many, it takes a long time to get a trial or court date.
Even if it is merely a motion date or a pretrial or settlement conference, these court dates can be stressful. Stress can cause parties to become nervous, anxious, or even frustrated.
These feelings can sometimes lead to poor body language in the courtroom. Bad body language can manifest as frowning, fidgeting, slouching, or even a negative reaction to what happens in court. Some parties may moan or gasp. Others might throw up their hands or fidget in their chairs. In some instances, parties might furiously pass notes to their lawyers. Ultimately, poor visuals can be damaging.
Bad body language can come when an individual simply sees the other party or their family in a contentious case. The wrong body language can begin when the opposing lawyer is speaking, when a witness is testifying, or when something happens that they feel is bad for their case. Worse yet, it can come when the judge says something or announces a ruling from the bench.
Bad Body Language Can Damage a Case
The reality is that judges have discretion in divorce and family court cases about what they do. Often, judges weigh witnesses’ credibility not only on what they say but also on what they can see.
If a family court judge sees something in body language that they do not like, it can be damaging. Ultimately, parties need to be careful to control their body language. They have to understand that this can make a difference.
Some useful tips include remaining stone-faced at all times. No matter what happens in a courtroom or what is said, most parties should not react to it in any way. Sitting in a chair with good posture can also help because it projects confidence and a sense of calm.
Even with the stress of these court dates, parties have to go to their happy place in the courtroom emotionally. It might mean meditating or praying for peace, no matter what happens. It can also include engaging in breathing techniques or focusing on something else while waiting or sitting in the courtroom. Whatever helps a person display a positive demeanor, they should utilize those skills.
Parties Should Avoid Showing Their Anger, Anxiety, and Frustration
If clients are getting emotional, talking to their attorney in a private room to express their concerns can help. When emotions build up, it may be beneficial to take a walk or go to the water fountain or restroom. But, when a party is in the courtroom, everything they do can impact the case.
Bad body language can even impact the ability to settle the case. If the opposing party and lawyer can see that a party is becoming unglued, some may decide not to settle the case because they might believe that the other party will not make a good impression. In this way, body language can even impact settlement negotiations.
If you are going through a divorce or family law matter with a court date coming up, Stange Law Firm, PC can help. You can contact us at 855-895-0595.
